If you're reading this, chances are you've felt it too.
Watching your grandchild handle money in a way that makes you wince a little, even if you don't say anything.
Wondering whether they'll be okay with their first paycheck, their first credit card, their first big financial decision — especially once you're not around to help them figure it out.
And no matter what you try — cash in a birthday card, a comment here and there, a "we'll sit down and talk about it sometime" — nothing seems to actually stick.
I know the frustration. I hear it from other grandparents constantly.
And for a long time, I didn't have a good answer either.
Until I looked closer at something most grandparents never think to check...
How much of what we assume our grandkids are learning — from school, from their parents, from just "growing up" — is actually happening at all.
And it's not what most of us assume.
I'm not talking about a few outdated lessons or one boring assembly.
I'm talking about entire school systems where financial literacy simply isn't taught at all — no budgeting, no credit, no taxes, nothing — while we quietly assume their parents are covering it, and their parents quietly assume the school is.
The kind of gap that doesn't show up anywhere obvious.
Your grandchild can be doing well in school, well-liked, well-mannered, and still have zero idea what a credit score is, how taxes come out of a paycheck, or what "interest" actually costs them over time.
80% of parents assume schools are teaching this. They're not.
And hardly anyone realizes it until their grandchild is already an adult, learning it the hard way — usually right around the time you'd hoped you could finally just enjoy watching them succeed.